She is someone!!

Women!! Who is she?? A mother, a daughter, a sister?? 

Why we only acknowledge her by some relationship and not by her individuality? 
We always think that she is weak, she is dependent even if she is independent, she has no right to live the way she wants to. 

Before marriage she live according to her parents and later she needs permission from her husband or in laws. Why can't we let her take her own decision? Why we can't we treat her with respect? Why we blame her for every thing happen to her, why can't she stand for herself? Why can't she go out stay till late without being judged? Why can't she live alone in an apartment? Why? Why? Why? 
No one has the answer because everyone is lacking somewhere to treat her the way she deserves to be treated, the respect she deserves. 

I don't know about men whether they will understand this or not but want to request females to help each other grow, help eachother to deserve the respect  because if you can't help eachother then no one ever will.

अनोखा रिश्ता।

रोज़ सवेरे मुझे उठाता

हँसता और हँसाता हैं,

यह हैं वों अनोखा रिश्ता

जो हर माँ को भाता हैं। 

नन्ही आँखें, नन्ही मुस्कान

सबका दिल बहलाती हैं, 

सच पूछो तो मेरी आँखें ख़ुशी से भर आती हैं। 

हर पल मुझको व्यस्त रखे, 

बहुत मुझे नचाता हैं,

यह है वो अनोखा रिश्ता,

जो हर माँ को भाता हैं। 

बड़ा ना होजाए जल्दी बच्चा, 

यह ख़्वाब उसे डराता हैं

यह है वों अनोखा रिश्ता,

जो हर माँ को भाता हैं। 

Written by Saumya Khokhar. 

Motherhood

What is Motherhood?? How do you feel to be mother? Do you get time for yourself? You look so patient. You are spending too much time with your son thats why he is overly attached to you. He will not let you go out. He is your chipku, only you can handle him better than anyone. 
Every person has his/her point of view regarding it, so today i want to put my thoughts ahead and want you all to know my story.
According to me this is the best phase of my life. I have someone who loves me unconditionally, who is not judging me and doesn't think twice before showing his affection. Yes my son is overly attached to me and i am happy about it because it shows that i am doing my duty well. He is close to me because i am letting him feel that love and not stopping myself either. I spend most of the time with him and I miss him when he is not around.
But I do get tired, I do need my space as well,everyone does that but that doesnt mean i don't love my son. If someday i feel like going out for a movie or dinner or for clubbing  without my son that doesn't mean I am running away from my responsibilities or I am a bad mother. Its just I need to refresh my mind to perform my duty better. We should stop judging mothers and stop commenting on them without knowing their story. We all need encouragement, quite time, someone to say you are beautiful even if we are in mess, We all need someone to say "I love you". we need someone to make us feel important. we need to feel this Motherhood shouldn't be that hard,we all do our best and we will keep doing and giving our best as it is required.